We like to think we’re on the same page for the sake of arguing, but it’s only to keep the mind from wondering into territory that hasn’t been established.
It’s been brought to my attention several times this week that I have a weird taste in men…yes I do; allow me explain.
While most women take their time looking for the perfect man, with the perfect hair, the perfect smile, with the perfect arms, the perfect job, and the perfect car…I’m in search of the man with the best heart, the best sense of humor, with the perfect personality who not only carries the world on his back, but can also brings the moon to me every night. I look for the man with the tender touch, and the soft eyes whose smile can light up the world (my world) after a long day.
This got me thinking about the phrase: All Men Are The Same.
I’m going to say that I completely disagree. None of the men I’ve ever dated in the past have been like one another. Now I’m also going to add, that I haven’t dated many to fully place them all in the same category.
Which brings me to the next topic: If by my horoscope, I’m considered to be earth, why am I always searching for air?
There comes a time in a persons life when we have to stop looking for what’s perfect, and solely focus on what’s right. Many times I have walked into a situation thinking it was perfect, only to find that no matter how perfect it was in my head, the fact of the matter is, compatibility is a must in any relationship.
Which brings us to my next topic: Horoscopes.
When I was younger I found myself with the most tedious question ever known in the history of me, “Why didn’t it ever work out?” After every relationship ended, I was always given the same lines…
“It was never you, it was me.”
“You were perfect.”
“I was wrong, and completely stupid in letting you go.”
Now a little older, a little bit wiser I’ve come to understand that no matter how many times I have tried to convince myself that this wasn’t the truth, I also have to accept the fact that I have been dating all the wrong signs.
Moreover, I find myself questioning this once more, is it really wise to date a sign that is not compatible to yours?