Taurus Vs Cancer!

Cancer: June 21-July 22. As a Taurus I keep hearing that one of the most compatible signs out there is a, Cancer.

Why? Let me tell you.

It seems that they are lovers just like Taurus, creative, and often find their outlets to be cooking, they are great at coming up with new ideas/topics and love music and writing. However, they tend to be sensitive, and self-conscious, and I may have a problem with this…let’s be honest.  I have a strong personality and very confident, sometimes I can be overly sensitive and that’s when I need someone to remind me to keep my pieces together.  I have a phrase that I use often, “Even when you think its about you, its not, its all about me,” and “Just because I do this for you, its not for you, its mostly for me”, nonsense, yes, but its how I work.

Now, this doesn’t mean I’m not sympathetic to others, I am completely sympathetic which is why I often end up broken hearted, but I need someone strong, who will stand with the glue when I need it most, not watch me break and then break on their own because they have nothing to fall on. Sounds like I’m going to have to find me a Cancer, to mingle with… this doesn’t sound like a match made in heaven, sounds more of a friend with tons of things in common rather than someone who I can be romantic with.  I am a believer that one could be attracted to someone who they have nothing in common with because I believe its all about growing. However, people tend to stick to what they only know, which is, if you have zero in common, you are a complete write off.

From what I’ve read, Taurus and Cancer seem to have a lot going for them.  Both are homebodies, lovers, sentimentalists, and highly sexed. But I’ve also learned that if you come on to strong you can hurt a Cancers, feelings…and I have a thing with having to walk on eggshells. I want to be outspoken and liberal with all the things that come out of my mouth, its not an attack on anyone in particular, I just like to be able to speak my mind with whomever I’m with.  Turns out that Cancer needs someone like Taurus to depend on; I’m not sure how I feel about having someone depending on me, when I’m so busy taking care of everything else. I need someone I can depend on from time to time, because lets face it, a girl needs a a strong man.

3 thoughts on “Taurus Vs Cancer!

  1. Not all cancers are like that. It’s a choice. A cancer can make a choice of whether or not they want to be either dependent or independent. Yes we’re sensitive but when you need someone to be strong we can be that crutch for you to hold you up (at least that’s how I am). I may be both a crybaby and stubborn but it’s only for a short second then I catch myself. That’s why a Taurus and a Cancer are a good match because we can lean on one another when it comes down to it. We would be able to almost read each others minds. You are right though. There is no need to have many things in common to be a match. That’s just my opinion because I’m a Cancer and I disagreed a little with what you said about how dependent we are and that we’ll break if you break. No I don’t think I’d break that’s why I have my hard shell. Lol I’m very strong willed and seek to persevere with or without a significant other. Another thing, I’m very bluntly outspoken. If you were to say something to me that offended me I’d let you know but I’d get over it. Especially when your intentions weren’t to hurt my feelings. It’s really just a matter of communication. If there’s communication between a Taurus and a Cancer it could be a match made in heaven. ;) Heck, if there’s communication in any relationship that relationship will succeed. I’m not saying there won’t be arguments or disagreements because every relationship has them but I can say that there won’t be many because Cancers are Lovers not Fighters but we do defend ourselves when needed. As I did just now haha. Some cancers might be like that but not ALL cancers.



    • I can’t believe I missed your comment. “I’m very bluntly outspoken. If you were to say something to me that offended me I’d let you know but I’d get over it.” That’s me always, and completely misunderstood by it. Thank you for your feed back, I enjoyed your thoughts immensely.


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